Ask Grayden Damien Again!

Welcome to yet another edition of ASK GRAYDEN DAMIEN!  As usual you guys always have interesting questions for me! Let us not waste any more time and get this thing started!

Q: When will we see you back in UCW?
A: I have actually been getting asked that a lot over the last few months. I decided it was time for me to quit back at the end of May. It is something that I have not changed my mind on. I pretty much burned that bridge and any chance of me returning. I stayed respectable and professional with my exit but had certain people trying to bring me down after my exit. I can 100% say that you will not ever see me back in UCW! I prefer to keep it that way! I am grateful for my time there but there is a reason you see a lot of guys come and go. I couldn't lie to myself anymore and pretend I was happy in a situation that I clearly wasn't happy in.

Q: What are your thoughts on Ty Alexander from BG?
A: I don't really know much about him to be honest with you. He seems to be very popular at the moment and that is great for him! I've only chatted with him a handful of times but I know he has worked very hard to get to where he is now. He worked hard on his body and really transformed himself. He had a great deal of dedication and that is respectable. Aside from that I haven't seen any of his matches. I can't pass judgement on his wrestling ability or style. It is too hard to tell if he is Skip Vance 2.0!

Q:In any of your wrestling experiences have you ever been
brought to orgasm mid match?
A: Hey STEVEN D! Figured I'd give you that shout out! I am going to say no on this one. A lot of people look at the eroticism of wrestling and get turned on instantly. It has never been about an erotic experience for me. I'm more driven by the competition and passion for the love of the sport. The erotic aspects are put on the back burner when I'm in a match. I'm too focused and don't look at it in a sexual way so it hasn't happened. That doesn't mean that the natural side effects of rubbing up against another man haven't come up. No different than when a doctor checks your penis and you get an erection.

Q: Would you ever wrestle for BG EAST?
A: I don't think at this current time that is of interest to me. A while ago that was my ultimate goal, but it isn't at the top of my list anymore. I have wrestled in their ring before and there is a lot I am capable of. I wouldn't say yes right now if I was asked today, but I would consider it in the future if asked. I'd have to follow the product a little closer and know what my expectations were before doing anything. Some of their videos seem to be flat out porn and to me that is not what wrestling is about. I understand there is a market for that and I have even taken advantage of that market doing my own videos with my future husband. It would seem hypocritical of me to say I wouldn't mix the two! I'd just rather keep it on the wrestling side of things if I ever did wind up in BG EAST. I wouldn't wanna get involved in the more heavily erotic side, I'll only get erotic with my husband. I have the talent and I have a great look. So if they would be able to find use for me then I'd surely consider it, but I wouldn't be sucking dick after losing a match. 

Q: Who would you love to wrestle that you haven't had the chance to yet?
A: Well whomever asked me about Ty Alexander I'm sure wants to see us go head to head! That could be interesting. UCW dropped the ball countless times with dream match ups my fans were asking for. Then of course there is Cody Rhodes! :p


Q: What do you do to keep in awesome shape?
A: I just take care of myself really! Part of my major in college is a lot to do with fitness and nutrition. I hate to just say the cliche answer of exercising and eating right, but that really is all that it is. Eating right is different for everybody and you really have to find what works for you. A lot of my stamina came from a mixture of doing the Insanity program and my pro wrestling training. Right now I am a fan of Focus T25 because of how hectic my schedule is. Again you have to give it your all and not do it half ass!


Well this was exciting! I had a few more questions but I think I will save those for a future blog as they are all sorts of random. That just means that in the future I will have to do another Ask Grayden Damien blog!  So for next time feel free to get a jump start on those questions!

Am I done with Wrestling?

For those of you who don't follow me on twitter or facebook you may have missed out on some important updates.

I will repost them here

Thank you guys for everything! Today is the day with great regret that I announce I am finished with wrestling! I recently had a life changing experience in which I also found God! So as I walk a new path in my life I hang up my wrestling boots! Looking ahead to the future. Probably going to be deleting this facebook by the end of today. You guys have been the greatest fans and friends I can ask for. Don't worry you can still keep in touch via snail mail. I have my po box paid for the next few months. Thanks again! Your support has meant the world to me! Wanted to tell you guys a few things before I leave wrestling for good. I've filmed one more match but sadly not with ucw. I don't know when it's coming out but I'm appearing as "Blake" I wasn't given a last name. Not really supposed to talk about it yet but I'm done with wrestling so who cares! You guys can keep in touch at least till August!


A lot of people weren't sure what to make of these updates and to be honest with you I wasn't either. I think I may have ruffled some feathers and the response has been very mixed. Some of you have messaged me saying I'm far too young to retire and I have too much talent to throw it all away. Some of you also didn't really give a fuck either way! The response was interesting. I guess I should just come out with it. 

THIS WASN'T AN APRIL FOOL'S DAY JOKE!




Well not in the traditional sense. This was one of those times that I really was looking to get a reaction out of people. Some were quick to jump on and say it was an April Fool's joke and others were legitimacy upset. I guess the good news to come out of this is I am not done with wrestling and I am going to continue wrestling. I love wrestling too much to walk away! However there are some other things I should clear up before I go further.

At the current moment my pro wrestling training is at a stand still. The school is sort of on a winter hiatus. I hope that doesn't mean we are done for good. I don't wanna get too involved with that. I am also awaiting to hear when my next UCW match is going to be and I am working on helping my fiance with workouts and getting him ready to wrestle. He may end up joining UCW if the cards lay out right.  There are of course other plans for the future for other things but I won't discuss those at this moment.  I am also not appearing as Blake at this current moment. Sorry to let you guys down if you wanted to see me on another site but currently not happening. Right now there aren't any sites I'm interested in appearing on. On a final note I also didn't find GOD! I won't get into what my beliefs are but that is a ridiculous statement to make! I always found it funny when people used that as any kind of excuse for a life changing event! Had to poke fun at that.


Well that is all for now!
Will catch you guys later.


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Ask Grayden Damien!

I love answering your questions! I figure now that I have this blog this would be the perfect place to do it. At the start of the year I asked you guys to send me some questions. These are some of the questions that I got and I am looking to answer more. Make sure you read through to the end to see how you can submit more questions to me. The last few segments were strictly about UCW! Now as I am expanding my horizons I am taking more types of questions.

Q: Damien comes across as flamboyant and wild, are you like that off camera?
A: That is part of the mystery man! There is a reason I call myself the image of deception. Part of the reason I come across that way is so people under estimate me and I stand out. There isn't another UCW wrestler who can touch my personality. You gotta do what you gotta do to get ahead. It works for me and people mistake my hyper personality for a weakness. That is why I also do a lot of dirty moves and tactics in my match. I'm not a full blown heel and I'm not a total face. So playing up to camp allows me to really do whatever the hell I want in my matches. I can grind my crotch in your face or give you a swift kick to the nuts. Take your pick? Off screen I'm not quite that gay. That's all part of my image and my manipulation tactics.




Q: Are you done with UCW?
A: I addressed this in a previous blog! As long as fans wanna see me I'll continue to wrestle for UCW. You'll see more of me in 2014!


Q: What are your 2014 goals in UCW?
A: One of my main goals is to be the best wrestler I can be. To keep myself evolving and keep myself appealing to the fans. I think this year you'll see some improvements and I'll keep things fresh. I'm also planning on becoming champion at some point. So look out!

Q: Will you be appearing on any other wrestling sites?A: Not really! Aside from what I do with Devin for our own videos. I am not interested in many of the other sites right now. I touched upon this in a previous blog. Fans are interested in seeing me on other sites and there have been talks but nothing really set in stone. If the right opportunity comes along with the right wrestling promotion then of course I'd consider it.



Q: Has your life changed since becoming a famous wrestler?
A: HA HA If only I was a famous wrestler! I get what you mean though! The only thing that has really changed is I have had more opportunity and more exposure because of UCW. It has opened some doors and also gave me a fanbase.


Q: Favorite Wrestler?
A: UCW It is my enemy turned best friend Michael Hannigan! WWE It is Cody Rhodes! On the Indy Scene it's really too hard to pick. There is some great talent out there and also a lot of generic similar talent. As far as other gay wrestling sites I have no idea. I can tell you more who I dislike on gay wrestling sites, but I don't wanna start shit here!

Q: Top, Bottom, or Vers?
A: That is for me and my fiance to know and nobody else!

Q: Do you do private matches?
A: This question is becoming too common! I've answered it before and discussed it in heavy detail. Not at this time!





This has been fun! I am sure we will do many more of these. So if you'd like to ask me some questions here is how.. You can either comment here, hit me up on facebook, twitter, AskFm, or email! Thanks again guys!


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